I have read two books in the last month that I think are worth sharing. Here are my book reports:
Mother Had A Secret By Tiffany Fletcher
Tiffany Fletcher and her husband Sean are actually good friends of ours. I was so excited to hear she had published a book, a memoir of sorts. Due to school, it took me a year to finally get around to reading it, but I'm so glad I did. Tiffany's story is a heart-wrenching tale of her life dealing with her mother's multiple personalities disorder and how she learned acceptance and compassion. Tiffany's words are real; her descriptions are easy to picture and interesting to read. As I read, I could almost hear her reading the words aloud to me.
One fascinating element of the story was her difficulty in admitting hate. Hate is an emotion we all seem to feel, but find difficult to express because it is such a negative response. As I read through these
hateful sections, I reflected on my own conflicts of hatred and how I dealt with them. Tiffany's story allows for the reflection, encourages it as well as identifying good ways to deal with it.
I also appreciated her explanation of dealing with disorder. She writes: "Though I considered myself a perfectionist, I found that perfection was a relative thing" (so true), she continues, "In the areas that mattered to me, I was meticulous and strived to maintain that aura of flawlessness. However, when it came to organization, I was less concerned. I had lived with disorder all my life, and my mind had learned to ignore it, perhaps in order to maintain a certain level of sanity. Our minds do that; they adapt and shape themselves in such a way that allows us to continue functioning in the most inhumane conditions" (48). I find Tiffany's statement to be plain and honest. Her description of how the mind adapts to uncomfortable or unacceptable situations is interesting and realistic.
Overall, I enjoyed the book. I'm glad I read it. I highly recommend it to all my friends. But I must say, be prepared for a tear-jerker section (or two).
The Book of Tomorrow By Cecelia Ahern
The other book I recently finished reading was Cecilia Ahern's book,
The Book of Tomorrow. She is also the author of
P.S. I Love You, which was made into a movie of the same name starring Hilary Swank. However, this fact is not the reason I picked up
this book (I only saw the movie--never read the book). I came across this particular book at the library when I was searching instead for a book by Lisa See (I'll get to that book eventually). In this instance, after being unable to find what I wanted, I literally grabbed a book off a shelf, glanced over the description on the back, deemed it suitable and took it home.
At first, I found it hard to delve into, a spoiled-rotten teenager doesn't float my boat, but eventually I became engrossed and quickly finished the book in a few days. The mix of fantasy and realism is a perfect combination to suit my taste.
The story takes place in a quiet countryside in Ireland, near a ruined castle. I enjoyed picturing the ruins and the lilting celtic airs that must whistle through the wind (haha). But honestly, the setting is fascinating and still unique. Ancient meets the present day; Ahern often includes modern day references to tv shows, food and familiar characters, etc. It's a book about the temptations and struggles of today but hails to the idealistic architecture of yesterday.
I only have one real criticism. the main character, Tamara, is somewhat annoying. As I mentioned earlier, she is a spoiled teenager, which translates into a foul mouth, bad attitude and selfish disposition. But, because she is such a person, the lesson she learns (humility, understanding and consideration for others) is greatly accentuated.
Coping with grief is another situation this story illustrates. Tamara has lost her father as well as her possessions. She learns to mourn and deal with the complication of the emotions she feels. The book helps depict this unnerving process. Although, the subject matter is fairly sad, the overall sentiment is rousing. Who doesn't like a happy ending?
